u/Fearless_Cod2845

Lost my confidence

Hi there. I’m an Asian guy who’s mainly into white guys (yeah, a potato queen). I realize there’s a difference in beauty standards between the Eastern and the Western , but honestly, I’ve never been called ugly in my life, many ppl said I have that kpop idol look, and in real life, the ppl around me, whether male or female, says I'm handsome. (I'm average, but I rarely hear anyone say I'm ugly.)
The problem is, I get no likes on grindr or Tinder. People either don't respond, or they block me the second they see my photo. I travel to Europe or America twice a year, but I can almost never get a date. I’m trying to figure out what I’m doing wrong—how can I actually appeal to Westerners and fit their idea of an attractive guy? :(

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u/Fearless_Cod2845 — 2 days ago