u/FarBeginning8195

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Men, how would you feel if a Hinge match was more interested in your friend?

matched with a guy on Hinge and then realized he’s friends with a guy I used to work with. I already follow the coworker on Instagram and I’m pretty sure he used to have a thing for me lol, from other coworkers telling me plus he added me on Instagram first but backed out? It’s been a year since that happens he is just a follower of my account.

The thing is I think I’m actually more interested in the coworker

They’re literally on a trip together rn too which is how I figured out they were friends.

Would most guys think it’s disrespectful if a Hinge match asked to be put onto their friend? Or would you rather she just message the friend directly?

I genuinely don’t wanna be rude or messy 💀

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u/FarBeginning8195 — 2 days ago

Would it be rude to ask a Hinge match to put me onto his friend?

matched with a guy on Hinge and then realized he’s friends with a guy I used to work with. I already follow the coworker on Instagram and I’m pretty sure he used to have a thing for me lol, from other coworkers telling me plus he added me on Instagram first but backed out? It’s been a year since that happens he is just a follower of my account.

The thing is I think I’m actually more interested in the coworker

They’re literally on a trip together rn too which is how I figured out they were friends.

Would it be weird or disrespectful to ask the Hinge guy to put me onto his friend? Or should I just message the coworker directly since we already follow each other?
I genuinely don’t wanna be rude or messy 💀

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u/FarBeginning8195 — 2 days ago