Hello all.
A little bit of backstory;
So, my girls and I are on vacation at the beach. There are three of us. We decided to go out Saturday night to the bars in the city closest to our Air Bnb. We met a group of army men at the bar. Well, we each gravitated towards one and they came back with us. I was with this fine ass man; 6’7, blonde, and great features.
We ended up getting a lil frisky in the bedroom and he was enjoying it. So much so that, I think he may have said that he loved me? I say this as a question because, when I drink (even like 2 drinks), I have HORRIBLE memory. So, it’s a bit fuzzy, but I remember being caught off guard.
Anywho, we continued for like 2 min, then randomly stopped. He said that he “didn’t want to finish” . I asked him why, and he said it was because he was “too tired and non-chalant”. Like wtf does that mean?? I kinda giggled audibly bc WHAT? I went to strip the sheets and then he just continued where we had left off… THEN STOPPED AGAIN and SAID THE SAME THING. We just ended up laying down and he fell asleep on me.
At one point, I wiggled out from under him and went to make a sandwich. Everyone else was watching a movie and asked how everything went. Well, my friends and even his friends couldn’t believe it. I kept the “I love you” part to myself bc I didn’t even think to mention it that night.
We cuddled the next morning, he left, and I haven’t heard from him since. Whereas, my friends have seen his friends multiple times since.
So… what is wrong with this situation. Is it me, or is it something else?