Hi everyone,
I’m really struggling right now and could use some advice (or even just reassurance). My daughter just turned 3, and over the past month she has become incredibly difficult. Almost everything is a battle.
No to eating.
No to getting dressed.
No to brushing teeth.
No to going out.
No to staying in.
Even things she usually enjoys are suddenly a “NO.”
She’s also become extremely stubborn — once she decides something, there’s no redirecting her. It turns into full-blown meltdowns over the smallest things, and I feel like I’m constantly walking on eggshells or negotiating with a tiny, very emotional dictator.
I’ve tried being calm, giving choices, distracting, setting boundaries… some days nothing seems to work. I’m honestly at my wits’ end and feel exhausted and defeated.
Is this just a phase? Has anyone else gone through this around age 3? What actually helped you get through it?
I love her to bits, but right now I feel like I’m failing as a parent.
Any advice, tips, or even solidarity would mean a lot.