u/Far-Evidence9095

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Two weeks ago my wife(26F) told me she wanted a divorce. We’ve been together for 7 years and only married 6 months. I wanted to wait to get married but went along with it to make her happy. We used to work the at the same job and same shift for 3 years so we were constantly around each other day and night. We hav two kids together. Well the plant went under and we had to find new jobs separately. I work 3rd shift now and she works 1st shift to keep the kids going to the same daycare and have the same routine. Only three months into this huge life change she met a guy at her new job and told me He told her that he liked her. And she told me I had nothing to worry about. Well turns out I should’ve been worried. Because now they spend every weekend together and also every break together at their job. She cheated on me multiple times. With him. And is planning on still pursuing this relationship. I know that our relationship wasn’t perfect but it was far from being so bad that she would cheat and move on so quickly. I’m at a loss and have a therapy appointment on Tuesday. I’m over the tears and over wanting her back. But I was so convinced that things were getting better between us because of the job changes. I was cleaning way more now that I was on 3rd. I always did my part cleaning but 3rds made it easier to get more done. I was spending genuine time with the kids and giving her breaks and alone time. Money wasn’t tight anymore and things seemed to be getting better and all of a sudden there is a new guy ready to replace me. I’m talking to a divorce lawyer on Monday. She doesn’t want anything from me. Not the house not even child support? Can anyone give advice?

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u/Far-Evidence9095 — 11 days ago