hi everyone, long time listener and looker on reddit and THT. this is my first post on reddit so i hope i’m doing it right to get some advice. please let me know if anything needs to be fixed though :).
my older brothers wedding is coming up in june and i’ve been trying to find someone to go with me. i’m not dating or seeing anyone, so i planned on seeing if one of my friends would want to come with me. i’ve asked two of my best friends and a close friend from undergrad if they would want to tag along with me. these are three of four people that i would be comfortable bringing with me if they could come. unfortunately, after talking with them, it didn’t work with any of their schedules and what they had going on.
so, on to the last person, and this is where my main question comes up. i have one guy friend that i haven’t asked yet and i’m not sure if it’s a good idea. for context, we met on a dating app and talked for a while early last year, but decided to end things dating wise because the timing just wasn’t right for him (he was in the middle of his masters and had a lot going on, was a very amicable end). we’re still friends and text when we can, but we haven’t seen each other in person in about eight months. he’s the last person i know that i feel comfortable asking to come to my brothers wedding with me, and it would purely be just as friends. i really just want to have someone there with me to hang out.
not a lot, if any, of my extended family who is close to my age is coming to the wedding and i don’t really know anyone from my future SIL’s side besides her immediate family. and nothing against my parents or aunts and uncles, but having someone that i can talk to besides them would be nice. i’m just worried though that if i ask him this it might put a weird drift in our friendship by implying something that i really don’t mean to put in there. i value and enjoy our friendship, and i would hate to make him feel uncomfortable with something that feels small in the grand scheme. so, would it be weird if i asked him if he would be interested in coming with me to my brothers wedding?