u/Fantastic_Yak3223

A couple of days ago, while my boyfriend and I were being intimate, I accidentally sat back with my full weight on his testicles, I realized immediately that it hurt him, and I felt terrible. ​The problem is, he’s been giving me the silent treatment for 48 hours now ))), he barely looks at me and won't talk at all, I’ve apologized multiple times, but it doesn't seem to help. ​Since I don't have those parts, I have to ask, does it really hurt that much and for that long? how can I make it up to him, or is he overreacting by ignoring me for two days?

Hi, I have a concern and thought I’d ask for an opinion here, maybe I’m just being too sensitive, I’m 38, my husband is 41, we’ve been together for a long time, and we have two children. While we were being intimate, he was very aroused and let something slip that completely froze me in the moment, he whispered in my ear something like, 'Damn, you're so sexy... you're just as sexy as your sister.' ​I should mention that my sister is 34 and we are quite close, she visits us often, and we go out together, In that moment, I just froze and didn't say a word, but ever since, I can’t look at him or her without that popping into my mind. He’s acting normal, as if he never even said it, but I keep wondering, was it just a sick, heat-of-the-moment fantasy, or does he actually think about her when he’s with me? Or worse, has something actually happened between them? ​What do you advise me to do? Should I confront him directly, or just let it go, thinking it was just a slip of the tongue in a moment of madness?