First year teacher classroom management
First year teacher here. My classroom management lacked a lot in the year because I was focusing mostly on content. Luckily, I have a lot of curriculum built now so next year I can focus more on management. My kids aren’t super bad, but I need advice because I know it came from just lack of consistency.
I’m a young female teacher and I’m pretty tiny. I’m usually perceived as “nice”, which I think is somewhat good but I don’t like it as a compliment for teaching bc that could also mean pushover. My school doesn’t have a no phone policy, so some of my biggest struggles with classroom management have been phones and kids talking while I’m talking. It’s so disrespectful to me when I’m giving instructions and a handful of kids are on their phones, but admin doesn’t have anything to back me up on that. Regarding kids talking while I’m talking, I don’t let them do that now, like I pause and call them out or wait etc etc, but it’s a constant thing I have to do just because I wasn’t strict enough about that earlier in the year. I just let side bar conversations go on which was such a mistake. I’ve caught a handful of kids cheating recently, using AI apps to scan and write lab reports, do their assignments in class, etc. and they cheat right in front of me. I give them zeroes when I catch them, but it’s so frustrating. Oh yeah, a couple periods have always been in the habit of stopping ~5 min before the bell and starting to stand by the door which bothers me so much. I tried telling them for a couple months not to do that but it literally just kept reappearing as an issue. Again, my fault, but certain things I gave up on because they didn’t seem like worthy battles, but now I have a ton of small battles seeming like one big one.
I just feel like they perceive me as stupid and I know it’s because I haven’t been firm enough in the beginning of the year. I let too much slide and now I know next year to be more consistent from the very first day of school, but honestly I also was nervous because I was a new teacher both in general and to the school and was unsure of my power. I’ve been very good with routines, like I definitely keep the kids busy and that helps, but it’s more so the demanding respect aspect that I struggle with. This late in the year, I’ve struggled because I’ve been trying to implement that but they’re not used to be snapping about phones and demanding their attention which is completely my fault, but I’ve lost multiple of them in multiple periods. Again, they’re not bad kids and don’t do anything referral worthy, it’s just a reflection of my lack of follow through and I feel embarrassed. There’s only a couple weeks left in this school year, but I need advice for the next year and how to prevent this from happening.