my husband of 4 years had a 1 night stand 11 years ago with a girl he didn’t know. a few weeks after the girl claimed pregnancy. they both decided she would abort and he never herd from her again. last year the girl pops up and contacts him saying her now 11 yo daughter is his. he met her and a month later gets hit with child support.
i told my husband how could you know for sure this is your daughter? you should be getting a preternity test to be sure. he claims he doesn’t know the mom at all. only seen her 1 time. he says the timing adds up and doesn’t think someone would lie about that.
i absolutely think he should get a preternity test. i dont see how he can trust someone he doesn’t knows word like this. especially after the mom hid it for so many years. unless there is more to the story he isnt telling but im pretty sure he is telling the truth, no reason to lie.
i want to here what you all think being strangers looking at the situation.