I am 38F and husband 43M married for 11 years. yesterday I had a parcel which hard to be returned at the usps and asked my husband can we go at 4 in the evening. I could immediately sense his irritation he started saying whenever it’s possible for you only you want to go, why do you want to wait for me why can’t you go alone and drop it and come. the next one hour I could see some tension in his words. He repeated again why can’t you go alone and drop it off and com. Finally he came. it’s once in a blue moon that I ask his help for something. usually I take care of everything myself coz I know he might get irritated. His sister and brother in law stay near us and in the evening his brother in law called him to accompany for car driving since he is just learning and my husband just hopped without saying anything. I felt very bad. why this discrimination. There are many such instances where he jumps for others help but when it comes to me it’s always cribbing.
we have had our share of relationship problems. but these things would never hurt me or hurt very little but I’m feeling too bad from yesterday and cried a lot. AITAH for feeling this way.
Edit: the parcel wasn’t too heavy. I could have easily dropped it myself . it was just that he also had planned to buy something from the grocery store which is around 200 meters away from usps and around the same time. What I said all was can we drop the parcel and buy the grocery while coming back. It was just going to usps from there that was the issue.