u/FancyKnight23

Hello all, I have a few questions on how I can be a little bit of a better partner for my future girlfriend. Now… obviously everyone has their own ideas, likes/dislikes, etc. but truly, anything at all I’m willing and wanting to learn.

I am wondering on a few things in particular:

*What should I have in my house/room that would help her during period?
-practically the same thing, but what should I have In my car or a more “on the go” type of thing that would help with periods.

*What are pet peeves?
-what stuff is absolutely a NO go during periods or just general personal life? (I have a few ideas, but I just want to be sure and see if I’m missing anything)

*now, please don’t get mad at me. I’m truly trying to work on this. But how much feminism is “too much”?
-I would classify myself as a feminist, or somthing like minded in goals. But I’ve seen people blow it out of the water, the performative people. How can I be a good ally, but not an annoying/disrespectful one? I don’t think I am, but I get nervous that if I do show support that people will think I’m performative.

And final thing, any tips? Hacks? Something your partner did that was appreciated?
And if I was ever disrespectful in my post please tell me what I can work on. I’m trying to be better :)

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u/FancyKnight23 — 8 days ago

Hello! First I completely understand everyone is different so some might like it, some might not. But I just wanna hear ideas :)

I collect a LOT of stuff and take pride in all of it! I collect historical uniforms and other items, Legos, clothing, art stuff, books, but my number 1 love is action figures. I LOVE Them. I have so many and I love how they all look. But im a lil nervous. So my question is:

How would yall react to collections? And, are they a little bit of a turn off?

Couple other things:

I don’t collect “weird” action figures or any of that stuff. I like my stuff from star wars and marvel, I’m not big into the “weird” and “Gooner” side of collecting.

I try to keep them clean, I like to see them as nice and well put together. Not dirty or dusty.

And final thing. Yes. I do sometimes like to play with them. I am not going to give me age bc creeps, but i am under 22.

That’s really bout it. Truly, any and all input is valued :)

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u/FancyKnight23 — 10 days ago