u/Fancy-Bandicoot9825

I (47y f no kids) have been dating a (53y m) for 4 months and it’s been quite challenging with his lack of time for me and his schedule. He has 2 teenage kids 50% of the time for one week and then he’s in a different city for work the following week. So we only get to meet for a couple of hours, usually twice a week that he’s here. We do enjoy each others company a lot but I feel like I’m never the priority, he shifts our plans accordingly to his kids and never books in a weekend day to see me. We’ve never spent a whole night/day together and he hasn’t asked me to join him in the other city. I work remotely and am completely flexible. I’ve communicated my needs but I don’t seem to get answers as he seems overwhelmed. He seems quite disorganized with everything going on including his busy work schedule. Should I keep seeing him or should I give him some slack?