The consensus seems to be that it is fine to be chubby/fat, and that’s probably great as a point of consensus.
…..but how, exactly? Especially when it comes to how one dresses, there seems to be a widely regrettable lack of femboys with a non-average weight, so I have no idea what to go on.
I (5’ 10”, ~230lbs) hate the way I look, with feminine or masculine clothing, and to be honest while plus-size women’s clothes would make me comfortable with my appearance, It usually isn’t that particularly attractive or feminine. I am only really saying this because I got a tank top that fit tight against my stomach, while I was used to loose t-shirts. Wearing it for five minutes immediately made me feel like a piece of fat crap and added several layers of regret and shame to what I’m constantly fighting.
I can’t tell you any advice would make me feel better, but is there something I can do?