u/Famous_Pirate9927

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I,18M, currently dating my gf 19F for about two years now. We've started dating on our second to last year of high school and we got along very well. We were each other's type and we bonded over a few things(movies,books and music, etc.). But recently things haven't been great, firstly we've had arguments, big and small, over a short period of time. It also doesn't help that we won't see each other again until college. I also have been a bit dismissive of her,I play a lot of games and sometimes I am just too focused on the games I'm playing and forget about my social life. We were told many times from our own respective social circles that we won't last and distance will tear us. We tried to ignore all of those comments but now I fear that's becoming true.

My gf is really religious. She's a orthodox Buddhist and she believes in psychics and mystic arts. She did a tarot reading and the reader told her that I don't love her anymore and there might be someone else in my life. The reader also told her that we might not last and the breakup is near. My gf then asked me if any of the things the reader said was true and I said "well me being a bit dismissive is true and I told you before that i can't handle getting my mind clustered and short tempered". She replied "if fate isn't with us then I guess we weren't meant to be". I was taken aback by this response. It felt like she was telling me "it's best to go our separate ways",but she also said "tarot might be wrong sometimes and we shouldn't put our relationship on the line over some cards". Now I'm in an emotional limbo idk how to proceed and I'm not even sure this matter will end in a good way.

P.S.: I forgot to mention that this is my first time having a girlfriend and i have no prior experience other than some romance movies.

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u/Famous_Pirate9927 — 10 days ago