So I had a new roommate in December and she was pretty chill. We got along and talked alot. However over the few months Ive known her, I've gotten sick of her.
She is so lost and its beginning to drag me down. She refuses to get her life together and is constantly complaining about getting a job. Ive had some get you life together talks but she never listens.
I dont think she is good to be around no more. Now she has been jabbing me with insults, be inconsiderate of my feelings, and she even had feelings for me and quickly ending things by making out with a guy in front of me to push me away. So uncalled for I thought.
I swear she only cares about herself. I honestly dont think she cares about me. I've done a lot for her and helped her with getting a job, keeping her happy and I dont get anything back.
She doesn't like the way I dress. She doesn't think what I do is interesting at all( Im a juggler). She interrupts me and I can barely get a word in. Shes been inconsiderate of my time.
She told me she wants to have more adventure. I proposed a trip to a rainforest and immediately puts it down. She say she wants to try new things but only what shes interested in, never anyone else's.
Now I cant stand her. She is now seeing this guy she use to push me away and it makes me extremely uncomfortable. She also brings him up a lot to talk about and I've told her multiple times not around me. She just say girls loke talking about boys its normal. I tried pulling away a few times but she constantly bugs me because we live in the same house.
She's not a terrible person but she needs to get her life together. I really dont think spending time with her is doing anything for me because shes unmotivated. The girl is lost and also pretty self centered.
Boundaries arent working because I have to keep changing them because a new issue arises.
Its a weird scenario because we live together.
I think I should end it but what do you think?