How do I start, I 22F have a roommate 23F and we have lived together for nearly 2 years now. First year was great, we got on well and had little to no disagreements. Then before Christmas is started.
She got a new kitten, which no problem we both have a cat each. However I do everything for all 3 cats, I buy their food, their litter, pay and take them to their vet appointments etc. I have no problem helping out but the fact that she doesn't even offer to pay me back is frustrating.
Anyway to the point of the post, the kitten needed to be desexed, as I am shift work she asked me to take her to the appointment and pick her up, which I was fine with. I then asked when she would be home to look after her, she said she was tired and wanted to sleep in with her boyfriend at his place and that I could just leave the kitten in her room in the crate. I explained this wasnt ideal as the kitten should have someone watching her. She told me to put the kitten in my room (my boyfriend is horribly allergic to cats and my room is the only place he doesnt have a reaction due to my rule of no cats in my room). I explained to her that my bf cant come over anymore if I do that. She then said she has sacrificed so much for the cats... her sacrifice is having the kitten in her room for 6 night when we first got her as we were slowly introducing her to our other cats.
I gave up trying to reason with her and the kitten slept in my room Friday night. Saturday I had work at 7am and took the kitten to work (im a vet nurse so I was able to hold her at work during the day). Saturday night her bf and her went out all night so kitten was again in my room. Sunday was what broke the camels back.
Sunday I was at work 2.5hrs extra (12.5hr shift in total) so I was exhausted and didnt sleep great cause of the kitten screaming all night. I came home had dinner and went to go grab a larger crate for the kitten so she wasnt so cramped. I was gone for 30-40 minutes. I came home to her and her bf have sex in the shower, in the only shower in the unit, the shower i then had to go into. I asked them 2 times to stop and each time they laughed and continued. I got pissed! She then came to my room to "talk" in her towel. I firmly told her DON'T. But her boyfriend became "uncomfortable" and asked her to come with him to his parents place. I ended up going to my partners place for a week to escape her.
Present day, I am still doing majority of the work for the cats and the only one cleaning the house. Her version of cleaning the toilet is just scrubbing the bowl, not actually cleaning under and on the lid eat. She has not once cleaned the bathroom (I had to clean it after their little sex time) and I vaccume weekly. We also have a spare room which is her sewing room and the cats room however again I am the one cleaning it.
I am really at my breaking point mentally. So AITAH for wanting to leave?