Rebuilding trust
I understand that forgiveness is sometimes a process, but how do you rebuild trust with a spouse you catch lying. I definitely hit a crossroad with what to do when my spouse (who lives separately from me.. but we are trying to come together after he sells the house), lied to me but only confessed he lied after he was caught. We had trust issues before I caught him recently lying. The painful thing about it was that I was ready to close my case with my attorney. I fasted and prayed and spent days telling the Lord my concerns.
If the Lord has done any work so far it’s been to draw me closer to himself during this separation from my husband and almost divorce.
I am now just seeing a little more love come from my husband, who ironically broke his knee at the very same moment I caught him in a lie. Maybe the Lord has allowed his broken knee to happen in order to start a process of healing in his heart. I’m not she