u/False_Technology_868

Massages and periods

So I feel really embarrassed having to come on here and ask this but I feel like if I don’t calm down my nerves the massage will just be pointless.

So I got me and my mom massage vouchers for Mother’s Day and our appointment is tomorrow, it’s a 60 minute Swedish massage with a 30 minute foot massage. This is no way my first massage as I’ve been getting them at least once or twice a year for the last 4 years but this is the first time I’m on my period when I’ll be having one. And one of the main issues that I’m nervous about is I don’t like tampons, they’ve always been uncomfortable to me and especially when I have a light flow like I do now, I prefer panty liners. Is it fine to go get a massage while wearing a panty liner? Should I suck it up and use a tampon for the hour and a half? If I do use a panty liner or even if I don’t and I do use a tampon should I give the person doing my massage a heads up that I’m on my period? I’m not a very comfortable person with talking about things like my period so it would definitely be embarrassing for me but I also don’t want to make whoever is doing it uncomfortable either so I’d push aside that embarrassment.

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u/False_Technology_868 — 2 days ago

Any clue what this is south NJ around marsh land

It’s pretty small right now, probably the size of my thumb nail but we get them every year and they get massive, around the size of a dragon fly later in the summer. One always sets up camp right next to the front door outside (the one in the photo) and there are others that set up around the windows on the outside. Doesn’t seem aggressive or anything, I do say hello and good bye to him/her whenever I leave and he/she doesn’t run at all whenever you get near

u/False_Technology_868 — 8 days ago