forming a relationship with bio-mom
hello everyone, i’m a new stepmom have been with my husband for 3 years, first 2 years were rough i wasn’t allowed in SK life which was understandable being a parent you have to be cautious of who joins your kids life., this year was my first year fully involved, (getting kid ready for school, attending school games, etc). my husband does not have a good co parenting relationship with bio mom but he is actively working on it for kids sake., and i’ve tried to have a good friendship with her but all i ever get is “you’re not his mom and never will be“ from her. does anyone here actually have a good relationship with the bio mom? and if so how long did it take to achieve that friendship?
also to add i’ve never stated i was SK mom, from the beginning i told my husband im not mom he has his own mom i’m just an extra support system for him.