u/FaithlessnessCute187

I had my labiaplasty (just inner lips) 17 days ago, the itching started a few days ago but everything looks fine and healing fab. I have just purchased some aqauphor to put on to help prevent the itching when it comes but I do think shaving would help.

I was advised to shave a week before the ops so followed this guidance, I now have over 3 weeks worth of hair and the bottom part looks like my flaps are supporting a goatee.

Surgeon advised not shave for 6 weeks but I have seen different recommendations- what did everyone else do?

I have been sleeping with this guy for around 5 months, our sex is good. I’ve recently had surgery and won’t be able to have sex for another 3-4 weeks. I understand that sex the way I like it won’t be possible for the first few months (impact play) yet still want the elements of kink to take place. I won’t be able to engage in any forceful sex act with the vagina, the rest of my body is still fine tho! Just no aggressive fingering or using toys to the extreme.

He is a dominant man, knows his way around the bedroom and isn’t really interested in role play. He also is not into the idea of me dominating him.

He is pretty open to most things I suggest and once fixated on trying something out we have clear communication on what that could look like.

If anyone has had some similar experiences would they please share what they found worked for them? How did you continue to keep the elements of kink apparent in territory that’s unfamiliar?