u/Fair_Baby_220

So, I am currently in grade 12 and I have physics, biology and chemistry as main subject. I am hearing it a lot that nowdays, people don't just look at your degree but also look for skills. So I am alot confused about this skills thing.

So, How can I have a skill? Do I need an evidence(i.e. certificate etc) for future job? Do I have to acquire skill from an official institute etc, or I can have it from anywhere? Is this possible for me to have skills without paying fees as I am a minor in India, and it's unusual for minors to work in India, we can't even work in cafes, restaurant, malls etc as they mostly need either a degree acquired adult person, or if it is a regular, not much big shop, cafe, restaurant etc, the owner already have their relatives working in them. So, I can't earn right now, and I don't want to spend my parent's money more.

And also, what skill should I have? Something related to my field for future job.

So, I am currently in grade 12 and I have physics, biology and chemistry as main subject. I am hearing it a lot that nowdays, people don't just look at your degree but also look for skills. So I am alot confused about this skills thing.

So, How can I have a skill? Do I need an evidence(i.e. certificate etc) for future job? Do I have to acquire skill from an official institute etc, or I can have it from anywhere? Is this possible for me to have skills without paying fees as I am a minor in India, and it's unusual for minors to work in India, we can't even work in cafes, restaurant, malls etc as they mostly need either a degree acquired adult person, or if it is a regular, not much big shop, cafe, restaurant etc, the owner already have their relatives working in them. So, I can't earn right now, and I don't want to spend my parent's money more. And also, what skill should I have? Something related to my field for future job.

So, I am currently in grade 12 and I have physics, biology and chemistry as main subject. I am hearing it a lot that nowdays, people don't just look at your degree but also look for skills. So I am alot confused about this skills thing.

So, How can I have a skill? Do I need an evidence(i.e. certificate etc) for future job? Do I have to acquire skill from an official institute etc, or I can have it from anywhere? Is this possible for me to have skills without paying fees as I am a minor in India, and it's unusual for minors to work in India, we can't even work in cafes, restaurant, malls etc as they mostly need either a degree acquired adult person, or if it is a regular, not much big shop, cafe, restaurant etc, the owner already have their relatives working in them. So, I can't earn right now, and I don't want to spend my parent's money more.

And also, what skill should I have? Something related to my field for future job.

So, I am currently in grade 12 and I have physics, biology and chemistry as main subject. I am hearing it a lot that nowdays, people don't just look at your degree but also look for skills. So I am alot confused about this skills thing.

So, How can I have a skill? Do I need an evidence(i.e. certificate etc) for future job? Do I have to acquire skill from an official institute etc, or I can have it from anywhere? Is this possible for me to have skills without paying fees as I am a minor in India, and it's unusual for minors to work in India, we can't even work in cafes, restaurant, malls etc as they mostly need either a degree acquired adult person, or if it is a regular, not much big shop, cafe, restaurant etc, the owner already have their relatives working in them. So, I can't earn right now, and I don't want to spend my parent's money more. And also, what skill should I have? Something related to my field for future job.

I am in class 12th and it's last year of my school. My class got seperated from my formal friends in 11th because we chose different streams.

I was only able to make 1 friend throughout the whole session but wasn't able to make any other friend. Everyone already had a best friend or a group, and it's very hard to be a part of the group. I want to make any other friends beside my best friend, I am stuck to her, she is very toxic, she gets offended on every small topic and don't talk to me for days, she wants me to agree to all her opinions but when I tell my beleifs, she disagree with me and stop talking to me. She do this drama almost every weak, she is childish, and support celebrities, ignoring that they even show inhumanity towards breast cancer and she is defending them, and when I spoke against it, she stopped talking to me. She is Also the kind of person who worship celebrities and it's really hard to tolerate, One day, I said that her favorite celebrity, In a particular photo looks like some other actor and she get offended, started saying that I should not compare them, I explained her that I am not comparing, still she was stuck to one line, you can tell by this how childish she is. Recently, I was telling her about that there are apps through which you can track your menstrual cycles, I was telling her that it can track the menstrual dates, the follicle phase, ovaluation phase etc. and I mentioned safe day, casually, then she out of the blue said that some women enjoy engaging in coitus during periods and it comfort them, which I find strange and said it can't be the case, she argued and said that it is scientifically proven, I disagreed and said it must be some women's kink(fantasizes), and is not anything scientific, and then she stopped talking to me.

I don't want to be her friend anymore but she is the only friend I have. I am an introvert girl so I can't form conversation on the spot. I tried in my whole 11th to make friends, but they just talk a little and gave priority to their friends.

There's a girl, let's call her J. She is very good at studying and she got 2nd position in 11th exams. I really want to be friends with her. She comes once a week in school. She also have a bestie and a group and I don't have a match vibe with any of teh group members, they are completely opposites of me. I tried to struck a conversation with J's bestie, but as usual, we only talked a little and it was extremely awkward and mid conversation She gone to her group. J has maths and I have Bio so we are also seperated by an invisible line. I don't think she is interested in studies during school, she is an ambivert and stay with her group. From tommorow, my summer vacation is beginning and I will probably go to school in July.

I tried whole one year, approaching individual but it didn't led anywhere. I can't sit close because every seat is reserved unspokenly, even if I sit beside or around someone, they remove me by saying my friend will sit Here. I talked only once to J throughout the session. Also, J's group includes bold, extroverts, complete opposite of mine and I can't understand their humour. They are always in a group. Also, whenever my so called friend stops talking to me, I had to sit alon the whole day, it seems so awkward and embarrassing.