I just have to vent this somewhere because I actually feel so drained and I don't even wanna be home anymore. My sister and me are twins both 16.
My sister treats me horribly she's hypocritical dirty and treats my entire family bad. SHe doesn't even clean up after herself which sucks because we share a room and her clothes and trash are just all over the bed and the floor. She's also currently mad at me for no reason.
I went to grab my money from my room and she said "nobody wants that" I say "wants what?" she then rolled her eyes at me called me a b**** and then slammed our room door in my face. She's always getting mad at me for stuff she started and I don't understand why even if it's something stupid.
She's constantly stealing my things which people are going to say is normal sibling behavior but I don't care I don't like it, and when I try setting boundaries she just doesn't respect them but gets upset when nobody wants to respect hers.
She's also read through my diary claiming that "I've also read through hers" I am not interested in anything she has to write so I don't know why she's projecting. She also can't seem to comprehend that if she does something to antagonize me I could do something worse to antagonize her then she'll get all mad and try to play victim to our family and friends like she's not the one who started it.
All I ever ask is for her to put her stuff back in place or to just ask to use my stuff but then she'll get so mad that I want her to respect boundaries, it's so draining to have to constantly worry about someone who holds malice towards me and constantly in my stuff. The day she got mad at me for asking"wants what" she slammed my Lego flower set on the floor which broke some of the pieces and she also smashed my tiara on the floor which also broke some of the crystals off of it.
I don't get why she's attacking my stuff when she's the one who said something to me first I didn't even do anything to her I never do anything to her but she just feels the need to ruin my life for no reason.
I already know this stems from some kind of jealousy from our childhood but she doesn't have to take that out on me she has to take that out with our mother and family. My main problem I have with her is her laziness. Every time I want her to clean up after herself like stop leaving dishes in our room and leaving stuff on our bed and floor she'll get mad about it and claim she does everything around the house (she doesn't) all she does is criticize other people but can't even take criticism herself.
And I dare say she's kind of male centered. I had a guy friend over the house a while ago and she was walking around in her underwear knowing he was here and refuse to put any clothes on because"it's my house , why should I".
I understand you also live here but could you at least get dressed while I guess it's over and especially a guy at that? Me and him were in the kitchen once and she yelled at our mom to tell him and me to get out of the kitchen because she was going to walk in their naked and even if he didn't leave she would walk in anyway. But girly are you okay what are you on?
Not to mention she'll accuse me of liking a guy she likes simply because I stood next to him. For example I used to wait outside for her after school so we can go home and she would sometimes talk to this guy. I stood by him and said that I liked his hair once, and she got all mad and defensive asking if I liked him or something. After that day I just stopped waiting for her and let her talk to the boys alone since apparently standing there was too much for her to handle.
She also accuses me of trying to copy her when I never copy anything she does. even if she's the older one she's the one who's copying me if anything. Last thing I'm gonna mention. I honestly didn't know if I was tripping or not until other people also told me that they noticed this. She copied my personality so people would like her more.
I know what sounds weird but growing up not a lot of people liked her since she would always be really b***** towards other people and me. Even though she's still b***** to certain people a lot more people like her now because she copies little quirks that I do. Things like retelling my jokes that I told her in private to people, doing these silly voices that I do all the time, just a lot of things that make me unique.
This one makes me feel bad especially because it's bad enough that we look the same but now when people talk to me they're just constantly reminded of her. I prefer to be alone and have a small friend group unlike her she has a lot of friends and a lot of people know her since she talks to more people. Then when those people actually get to know me all they say is"your sister does that too".
Am I overreacting?