Hello! Just a small rant and hopefully someone can relate to me here. My mom, sister, and I all decided to go on a ~2 week vacation and we have around four days left and it's been amazing. But their constant fighting has unfortunately taken all my energy and excitement. My mom, who has borderline personality disorder, and my sister, have fought in public countless times already and it's so embarrassing (multiple times a day, daily). My sister sets off her bpd by saying these unnecessary remarks and then they start going at it for the most stupid reasons. I'm not a very independent person, I admit, and I prefer and feel more comfortable traveling around and going to places with people and hadn't really strayed off from them and that may be my fault I'm having a tough time, but the point is, its a trip we were all three on and they fight over the most trivial things for everyone to hear. My sister is saying she's acting the way she is because our mom makes her regress into how she was in high school, but I don't understand how her sneaking in snarky comments when our mom asks a question is reason for her to be regressing but I guess that's neither here nor there...
Whenever we do separate because my mom is upset or some other reason, all my sister talks about is our mom and how dysfunctional she is and how their relationship is horrible. I've talked to my other sisters about this and they just tell me to enjoy it the best I can, which I am, but I'm just so mentally exhausted.
Just hoping to hear some advice or relatability from anyone else, thanks!