u/Fai_Fuck

As the title says, my boyfriend is really bad with his mental health, and how he handles living. He bedrots most of the day, only getting up to eat once or twice a day, and hardly drinks water or even uses the bathroom until he needs to.

I've been trying to help him since our relationship started. he's shown promise sometimes because he takes a few steps forward, and then ten steps back after a while, so there's hope there which is why I don't give up on him, but it's exhausting. I don't want advice that's telling me to give up on him, or to leave. that's not on the table. I want to both figure out how to cope with this and to help him.