30F here.. I recently went back on online dating after years refusing to be on it. I met one guy there that made it into almost two weeks of online chatting and one FaceTime. The guy sent me good morning txt everyday. Constantly checking in. Then I noticed that he only followed women on IG, not influencers, real ppl. I took it as a yellow flag but tried to focus on the connection. It kept going. Then he said he wanted to meet me in person. We discussed our availability and sort of established we would make plans beginning of the following week. During the weekend on sat during our one FT he said at the end “let’s do this again” and I gently reminded him “well when are we gonna actually meet in person?” He said he would look into his week’s schedule and get back to me. Now we talk for a bit the next day, then the day after Monday after talking throughout the day I asked him if he wanted to ft again since he asked “to see more of me” (after I sent him pictures of me all day btw lol) he said he couldn’t cuz he was with his kid then after that he went silent for two days.. this is a sudden change since he would send me good morning everyday. I find it odd so after a couple days I decide to cut things off with him as I just can’t do this online thing for much longer. I sent him a decent msg and he blocks me after reading it. Then I msg him on WhatsApp and we have a full convo where he tells me he still wants to see me, but refuses to make plans because he’s just so busy (he has a kid and a job). Am I the problem? Genuinely asking because I do have my issues but this just doesn’t feel one sided.
Ps. He keeps following more girls on IG by the day and yes I did surveillance anxiety check I own it lol