Feeling like the spark is fading in my 21F relationship from my partners side 23M– Need Advice
I, 21F have been with my partner, 23M for almost three years now, and lately, I feel like our relationship’s spark is fading. It probably sounds a bit silly, and maybe I’m overthinking, but I just need to get this off my chest.
Recently, we’ve been bickering a lot. For instance, I often have to remind him multiple times to do simple tasks. Also, he asks me to pay for my own shopping, but then uses my things anyway. I’m not sure if I’m being petty or if he’s just drifting away.
I work a standard 8-5 job, and after work, all I want is to relax, spend quality time with him, and enjoy a meal together. But instead, I feel like we end up arguing. When I try to include him in simple things like cooking, he acts as if it’s a burden.
I’m worried that all this nagging and bickering might push him away. I really don’t want to lose him, and I’m not sure what to do.
Does it sound like i'm just being paranoid with the bickering? Or something deeper?
Thanks for listening and any advice is appreciated.