Pretty much what the title says. Ik the same rules apply like circumstances don't matter ditch the old story assume the reality u desire etc etc. but idk how I can ignore 3d with that's happening. I feel unchosen by him. He says he loves me he cares for me but I can see he doesn't have the capacity to choose me bcoz of the insane load of his own life. Pressures I can't help with. What about circumstances where the problem isn't love or geography? What if it's that the person is so drained they have lost the capacity to invest. I'm gonna get answers like that's all my assumptions and I need to work on self concept. Yeah that is my assumptions but not everything is self concept. Self concept strength doesn't do anything when it's combined with pure delusion and thinking of nothing but urself. I respect myself and keep high value but I also need love from outside coz I'm human. Self concept might mean being on the pedestal urself but it doesn't take away the human need to be loved externally.
Does anyone on here have any suggestions for my situation?