Long distance relationship undone within two days of meeting
LDR North America / Europe of about 10 months.
I flew in a few days ago to visit her, this was our first time meeting in person. We've met on ace dating site, and been conversing nonstop for those 10 months. I flew in for her birthday that was meant to happen in a few days after my arrival.
The first night we spend together, in the middle of the night she went to sleep on the sofa.
She told me that she is feeling incredibly anxious about having someone around her space and that she will try her best to deal with that, but that I might need to find alternative housing nearby. I ofcourse agree to do that for her as soon as she lets me know its too much to handle.
Two day later she texts me from work saying that not only that I need to find another place, but that I need to book an earlier flight because its all too much for her, but we could still do the things we planned out for the remainder of the days. Disappointed, I begin booking an earlier flight and two hours later she tells me I have to pack my things by 2pm as she is coming with her two cop friends who wanted to make sure I dont cause a scene!
Lo and behold, she shows up with the plainsclothed police guys and I end up being escorted out. They drive me to a nearby hotel and now im sitting in a hotel room by my lonesome.
I am genuinely whiplashed by the whole situation. Nothing like this has ever been done to me in any form of relationship. It seems she still wants to salvage it, but I genuinely cant even imagine howd I proceed after being treated like that. Im flying out one day before her birthday, and I think im scrapping the whole thing.
Update: https://i.imgur.com/FQQ3mqB.jpeg Since there are a few people assuming I had done something to warrant the police guys
