u/Extra_Bed7419

Any advice on splitting assets? Everything is in my name, I’m not trying to completely lose my shirt in a messy divorce. I understand I’m going to lose somethings but I’m also bitter about losing things that I’ve put time and effort into the house the car etc I worked to provide and set my family up better than what I had and now it’s all going to be gone due to poor decisions and zero accountability of my so called spouse.

I just can’t wrap my head around giving someone something that has put zero effort in maintaining any of our assets and has zero understanding of equity. Everything has been just been given to her for years maybe I’ve created this idk but handling all the hard stuff.