do you think this is a move on or tell the fiancée situation
My friend (23F) gave me permission to post this because she’s genuinely conflicted and wants outside opinions.
Around December, she started seeing this guy (28M). Things seemed to be going really well for the first few months. Then around March, she started noticing a shift. He became distant and kept saying he had “a lot going on” that he needed to deal with, but he wouldn’t really explain what was happening. Even though the connection faded, they still checked in on each other here and there until things basically fizzled out completely around April.
Then that same month, news came out that he was engaged.
My friend is completely over the situation romantically and has no interest in him anymore. The issue now is whether she should message the fiancée and let her know what happened before she marries him, or if she should just leave the situation alone and move on with her life.
I personally lean toward leaving it alone because the relationship is over and bringing it up could create a lot of drama. My friend feels differently because she says if she were the fiancée, she would absolutely want to know before marrying someone who was seeing another person shortly beforehand.
So now we’re curious what other people think:
Would you want to be told in this situation, or is it better to stay out of it?
tl;dr Friend dated a guy for a few months, he slowly became distant, then got engaged almost immediately after things ended. She’s over him but is debating whether to warn the fiancée or just move on and stay out of it.