Help over a guy I like? Now-LDR situation.
Girls only, I’m not responding to men even if there are male comments.
Hey girls, I’ve been seeing a nice well off guy who’s my age, 23, and it was all nice, met his mother too MashAllah. Now he’s moved away for a few months to work, and he’s been spending time with a lot of friends after work. I’m so happy for him, he’s been in a rough spot for a while so him getting out and enjoying is what I wanna see for him. He’s been giving me time too, timezones are difficult to work through, but the issue is - \*he’s a horrible texter\*.
I’d never mind but it’s the only form of HIM I have. I don’t wanna be clingy or desperate, he gives me affection when he can. But today I was joking with him that “you should be sadder if this doesn’t work out!” And since we had a heated discussion on this a month ago, and since he was talking to me entirely fine, I didn’t expect him to be like “well you don’t seem sad yourself” followed by “🤣🤣🙄🙄” WHICH I HATE.
And ofc in my head I’m hurt. But he said he was teasing which I guess is fine, I’m just not sure why I’m so fixated on these things. I know he’s bad at texting with emotion/tone, I know he must surely love me because he has done a lot for me and tries to express it when I need reassurance.
I just want some fellow Pakistani girls to help? We’re both working in STEM fields, I just wonder how relationships can work while abroad, it hurts because I have NOTHING that has very positively happened between us after to cushion this incident - because we don’t get time to talk.