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INTJ interest?

I'm an INTJ who's pretty seriously interested in another INTJ. Therefore, I should probably have a good idea of what romantic interest would look like, but I have no idea lol.

He does seek out conversation with me very often, orients himself towards me in person (locks his focus on me when I talk, we often make eye contact, drifts towards me when we're in groups), and initiates texting with me, during which his texting style changes a crazy amount from normal in any group chats we're in (many exclamation marks, even 8 in one message when he normally uses none, emojis, drawn out words, etc). We have a lot of common interests, so we always have something to talk about, and he recently recommended a lot of books to me, later being very happy that I liked them. He's incredibly supportive and is always validating and encouraging me. He compliments me often, but not usually on my appearance, instead on my character and skills.

Could anyone provide thoughts on whether he's interested and what other behaviors he might display if he were?

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