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A lot of women like to say “imagine random dudes trying to hit you up let’s see how you’d like it” when complaining about being overflooded with options in dating but it’s a false equivalence because of course the guy won’t like it unless he’s gay.

Like idk why that’s seen as a “gotcha” it literally doesn’t prove anything, they avoid saying “imagine random women hitting you up” because they know that most men will enjoy it and it break their narrative they try to push that having mass options is dating is a “burden” on them because “sorting through my options is so hardddd”