u/Extension-Joke-9801

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my girlfriend has been acting weird.

i’m a girl for context, so wlw.

I don’t know what to do about her, we’ve been dating one month today, which i know isn’t a while, but i’m almost frustrated. we’re both 16.

Before we started dating we were basically best friends and called every night for hours, we would always talk about what was going on and i felt i could trust her.

Recently we’ve been calling maybe once or twice a week, and she hasn’t been properly opening up to me like she used to.

Also she isn’t a good texter either, but she’s also been bad at communicating recently although we both agreed we need to communicate everything as best as we can to aide the relationship if that makes any sense. She used to be good on calls and in person but even that has faltered.

She’s also been ‘mad’ at me for barely coming to school but she won’t tell me she’s mad either, i can just sense it. I think she thinks that i’m just being lazy, but it goes so much deeper than that.

It’s frustrating that she isn’t speaking to me how she used to and I understand the dynamic is different but I just don’t know what to do.

We’ve also got a holiday booked with two other people, this was booked before we started dating, but i’m worried that something might happen and it would make the holiday awkward.

I’d like to add that we’ve still not kissed, i’ve never actually kissed anyone before so it’s scary for me, yet i want her to kiss me. According to one of her other friends though I’ll be making all the first moves which kind of frustrates me a little since i was the one to ask her out. I don’t know if that makes sense?

I know this seems silly due to my age and the length of relationship but I really would like it to last.

Can anyone please give me some advice??

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