I am asking this because it has happened to me especially after making out a couple times and it was her idea saying because I was nice to her.
Edit: I read some comments saying she's not attracted to me romantically but she was the one who was into me in the first place with the ideas of being together in the future
So this is a bit embarrassing to post but I need outside perspective because the people around me are not being helpful at all right now. Three weeks ago I(22F) was out with my girls at a club. A guy, I'll call him Dre(28), approached me. He was charming, well-spoken and not aggressive about it. We talked for maybe 45 mins over drinks. He asked if he could take me out properly over the weekend, I said okay and he asked for my number and I gave it to him.
Now, this is important, I am not being naïve. I know the world, so before the date, I did everything right. I sent my closest friend his names(not sure if those were his right names), his Instagram, screenshots of our conversations and a photo of his car and its license plate that I took discreetly when he picked me up. I told them where we were going and set up a check-in system, I'd text every two hours and if they didn't hear from me, they'd call and if I didn't answer that call they'd contact someone. I was prepared since I still didn't trust him at that moment.
The date itself started fine. Lunch was great, conversation was easy, he seemed genuinely decent. Then he mentioned he'd booked us a lodge outside town foe the evening, sort of a scenic, quiet spot. I wasn't fully comfortable with that but I figured I had my safety net in place so I went along. When we got there and checked in I realized he had booked one room with one bed. I told him straight up, I was uncomfortable sharing a room with someone I'd known for a week. He seemed a little caught off guard but didn't make a scene. He went to the reception and paid for a separate room. He looked a bit put but said he understood.
We had dinner at the lodge's restaurant, we talked for sometime, said goodnight and went to our separate rooms. I texted my friends everything fine. It didn't take long before I hear a knock. It's Dre, He says he can't sleep and just wants to hang out, he gets in, lights on and we're just talking. Then he starts inching closer and says he wants to cuddle. I said I wasn't comfortable with that either. He pushed a little but I stood firm. Eventually I said I needed to use the bathroom. When I came back into the room, he was on my bed, and I'll just say he was touching himself. He didn't even look particularly embarrassed about it. He left for his room and the drive home the next morning was weird and silent. We haven't spoken since.
Here's is where the AITA part comes in. When I told my friends what happened, even though they were kind of supportive, they said some version of 'What did you expect , you went to a lodge with a stranger.' I feel like I did everything right. I took precautions and I set boundaries clearly. Am I somehow responsible for how the night ended because I agreed to go in the first place?
I don’t know what’s in the water in the Eastern Conference playoffs this year, but both of these first-round series have absolutely overdelivered.
First, you’ve got Orlando and Detroit – two young, hungry teams just absolutely mauling each other. Every game is a war. No one’s winning by more than 8 points. Cade vs. Paolo has been must-watch TV, and I genuinely have no idea who takes Game 7.
But can we focus on the absolute insanity that was Cleveland vs. Toronto Game 6?
With under 10 seconds left, Cavs up by 2, Raptors inbound from half court. Everyone expects the ball to go to Siakam or Barnes. Instead, Scottie draws three defenders and fires a laser to RJ Barrett in the corner. RJ pump fakes, steps in, and drills a cold-blooded 28-footer as the buzzer sounds.
Bank. Game. Over.
The bench cleared. Nick Nurse practically sprinted onto the court. Cleveland fans were dead silent. RJ just stood there with his arms out like "I've been waiting for this my whole life."
Now we get a Game 7 in Cleveland with all the pressure on the home team. And Orlando/Detroit Game 7 the same night.
This is what playoff basketball is supposed to be. Forget the superteams. Give me chaos and Game 7s.
Who do you have advancing?
Magic or Pistons?
Cavs or Raptors?
And seriously… where does that RJ shot rank all-time for Raptors playoff moments?