And do they use it for porn? How so?
I’ve never used it. I admit my radar did go off when he mentioned he got this but his workmates are younger than him and all chat on there. He’s not a gamer but does work in IT. Has it been part of his relapse? Who knows.
This has been my experience and I see it’s a lot of others too. During active using and relapse, PAs tend to get snappy, irritable and nasty to us.
Why is that, does anyone know?
Who else’s PA used this excuse?
Also:
“I felt fat”
“I didn’t want to bother you”
“I was curious”
“I couldn’t talk to you without looking like a selfish c**t”
“I missed sex”
“You were too busy”
My child had a serious illness for months, that’s why I was busy. She almost died. She was extremely sick in critical care and he was only managing the last 5 minutes of visiting a day. It’s unsurprising I wasn’t in the mood. Poor lad didn’t have the attention on him so he went and got it from Bonnie Blue et al instead.
Do they operate from a script?
Porn is such a destructive force. I feel like he’s dragged me into a vortex.
I’m 95% sure I’m leaving him. We’ve been separated a few weeks, I hadn’t spoken to him, not as punishment but because I’m under so much stress I can’t think straight and this is yet another huge stressor.
I’ve lost respect for him. I’m disgusted still. He’s not who I thought he was, which after a decade of being with someone is jarring. I’m going off men in general, I feel like they’re all the same. I don’t fancy life with a middle aged pervert who lusts after women young enough to be our daughter, then eventually granddaughter.
There are people here who get to a point of forgiveness and I’m genuinely in awe of you. How are you doing that? You must be done of the strongest women on earth.