DAE feel like Aquarius women manipulates them?
I’m a woman for context. December cap. I’ve had two strong Aqua woman in my life. One is a friend who I had purposefully fallen out of contact with, and been rekindling over the last year. The other is a new coworker.
I’ve felt really similar energy with both of them and wonder if anyone else has these experiences with Aqua or if it’s just me and something else going on.
Both times, I’ve felt like the dominant energy between us. Introducing my friends, my way of life, my rhythms. Both of these Aquarius women have come across as “confident” and “independent,” but on closer examination, both seemed to be very intent on almost taking over my life and cutting me out…? This sounds crazy, I swear, both both of these women are super intelligent and I swear manipulative…. Super sneaky comments that put me down in front of others. Very judgmental of others. The first Aqua woman was my close friend for many years, we intially became friends in college, when she was pretty much an outcast, and I welcomed her into my friend group, my life and happenings, and slowly over a year or so, she eventually seemed to “take over” my friend group, flirt a ton with my boyfriend at the time (a reoccurring issue with her with others as well). I ended up moving out of that city, because things got so weird eventually. We only rekindled things because we happened to run into each other and I felt like maybe I had made up how much she had taken over my life.
This current coworker who is also an Aqua coworker I swear gives me the same feeling. Puts me down in front of my other close coworkers for a laugh. Has been selectively asking my close coworker friends for one on one hangouts (this is obviously normal- but a clear pattern to sort of cut me out through all of this). I’m in a higher position than her, and she seems very eager and capable to work up to my level as fast as possible. My coworkers seem totally dazed by how lovely and what a fast learner she is. Which she is- but I swear I feel something more sinister lurking below.
I don’t know. Maybe it’s all crazy, but does anyone else feel like Aquas have this energy? Or just me?