Husband finally confronted justnomil
After eight long months of telling my husband he needs to talk to his mom he finally did it.
Husband told her she needs to stop making nasty comments towards me about not working it was our decision we made as a family for me to stay home with our daughter and it’s none of her business.
Her response: “ I didn’t know that upset you guys”
Him: when you go out of state you can’t come visit my daughter after. When family members that are visiting from out the country she’s not coming over. Stop asking me constantly when I already said no.
Her: okay I’ll just lie when I go out of state. How wil you find out? Did she get all her shots I don’t get the big deal.
Husband: “you always give us a hard time about washing your hands”
Her: But I do it anyways. Everyone else sees their grand daughter and gets to babysit their granddaughter why is it so hard for me to see mine.
Husband: you acted crazy at our baby shower and helped us with nothing.
Her: I didn’t know I did anything wrong.
So he comes home and tells me his mom was unapologetic did not say sorry but she wants to call me to apologize. No she wants to call me to tell me she didn’t know she did anything wrong and cry that she needs to see her grand baby. My husband accidentally shipped some items to his moms house which he picked up when he was there she proceeded to ask him did you send this here as a tactic to get to see me and bring the baby 😂😂.
She thinks that he sent the items there so he can use it as a excuse to tell me his wife oh I have to go pick up this stuff and bring the baby along so she can see baby. Only a crazy person would make up something like that in their head because the baby didn’t go with him. She thinks I’m keeping the baby and my husband from her.
I’ve long ago blocked her and she told him when he left she’d call me. I’ll never unblock her because once I tried talking to her and she never admitted she was wrong or ever said sorry to me. I tried multiple times.
The fact that she could say to my husband I’ll just lie and still come see the baby proves to me that she doesn’t care about the well being of my daughter and I’ve honestly lost sleep over it because how could someone be so ignorant and selfish. My daughter was born during cold and flu season and they never respected any boundaries so I cut them off. Now I feel a bit more at peace that I did the right thing because I trusted my gut and I was right. As a mother I don’t want any type of lying, manipulated things going on around my child. And now I’m definitely certain I made the right decision by keeping them away.