u/Express-Computer7924

My wife is an alcoholic and is attempting to get sober. She went through a program and then began hiding her drinking again and is now attempting sobriety again and going to some meetings a couple times a week. I’m feeling emotionally disconnected and unsure how that will change over time and sobriety, but the bigger picture is that she wants children in the next couple of years and I don’t know if that’s a realistic timeline or something I’m even comfortable with as a possible. I do want children but I feel scared about the possibility of her relapsing during pregnancy or just having alcoholic tendencies and (even when sober) and affecting the life of a child with that. I’m looking to shared experiences to help me find perspective on if this is a possibility for our future or not. Thanks