AITAH for asking my mom's boyfriend to make some meals vegetarian?
My mom's boyfriend moved in around 5 months ago wity with me and my my little brother. He makes breakfast most mornings. Now I'm a vegetarian, and I have been for 2 years (I'm 16 female) he always makes bacon, sausage, and pancakes. I don't care when others eat meat or make it and I was completely fine just eating the pancakes. Then he told me that he fried the pancakes in lard(pig fat), and they aren't vegetarian, meaning I can't eat any part of the breakfast he makes.
It's always been fine prior to him moving in at dinner and lunch I would just eat part of the meal and maybe supplement a bit with my own food. Ĺike if my mom madw chicken and rice i would eat the rice and make an egg with it.
I asked him if he could fry them in butter or a different fat instead so I don't have to make myself a completely different breakfast when the change is so simple. He refused because they taste better in lard and we argued about it. He does this with all the other meals he makes as well. Like making burritos and mixing the beans and rice with the meat so I can't eat any of it, or frying all the vegetables in lard. I talked to my mom and she said I was being dramatic and I can't expect people to cater to my preferences. But I'm not I'm literally just asking that things are fried in butter and food that is cooked separately not be combined. Hes literally putting IN effort to make everything not vegetarian. But I'm also probably biased, so now im asking the reddit lol. So AITA for wanting him to keep the meals vegetarian?
EDIT Also I'm not allowed to make other food for dinner until everyone's done eating because my brothers autistic and it confuses him so now I often can't eat until very late.
EDIT 2: VEGAN AND VEGETARIAN ARE DIFFERENT THINGS!
Vegetarian = no meat but other animal products are fine
Vegan=no meat or any other animal products