u/Expert-Vast-1521

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Hey everyone, I am posting this on here instead of thread because I am not really looking for date or friend connection, still if it violates the rules, please lmk so that I can post it there.

So, weird request Ik, but there is some context to it. So lots of shit happened recently and I came out my parents for the 3rd time and this time it was through a sucide note so things really struck home ig. My parents are actually taking it seriously this time and are willing to learn and are being as supportive as Indian parents who have ok ish education can be. We have had a discussion on what transition is and what can be done but they have many basic questions and many doubts which I can’t answer. Also, as we know that Indian parents usually learn or get confident in the knowledge when other Indian parents tell them instead of their child. I just want to connect with some other trans man who has gone through this and is willing to ask his parents (who have maybe gone through this confusion phase) if they can talk with mine, like a in-depth conversation or vcall and further if they can remain in touch, anything is ok. Would love if they were Marathi but if they know Hindi, it’s fine (my parents can’t speak English that well).

Also, I can show them videos/ articles but foreign/ English ones will not be good obviously. So, if someone has all trans man related transition video information which is comprehensive in Hindi or Marathi, it would be very helpful. Thanks in advance.

Yes I am an idiot. I get it, I fucked up and yes almost all posts are about this. Troll me all you want here but I just want some help regarding the procedure ahead. I looked through the posts but I am not getting any answers.

So, Analog exam, I had chits of paper for formulas. Caught me, signed and photo and all that jazz. Now, I wanna know that when will the committee call me? Because like it’s gonna be summer. Would I have to come back here or would they do online? Also, let’s say I get subject back. When will the make up exam be? You can reply here or DM me. Thanks.

Just remembered this yesterday while reading posts here. TW: Vomiting

This happened when I was in 5th–6th standard (around 11–12 years old). My school provided breakfast, lunch, and snacks in a big cafeteria. They had farms behind the school, so most vegetables and animal products came from there. The school loved bragging about how fresh and homemade the food was.

That also meant the cafeteria workers would pile extra food onto kids plates whether we wanted it or not. When you went to put your plate back and if it wasn’t empty, they would make you go back and force you to finish everything, all disguised as “care.”

Now, I have always had food issues. Certain textures and tastes make me gag badly. Especially vegetables like onions, cauliflower, cabbage, tomatoes, etc. I don’t try to be picky but I genuinely cannot handle them.

Usually, I would avoid trouble by hiding my plate under friend’s plates or going back when nobody was checking. But one day I was late for lunch and so was alone, and in a hurry to get back to class. Of course, that was the day they served cabbage with bread. (I am Indian so you can say dry cabbage curry).

I begged them not to give me any. Obviously, I was ignored.I ate the bread with other sides, left the cabbage, and tried to return my plate quickly. But one worker stopped me, gave me a long lecture about wastefulness and disrespecting food, then put another bread onto my plate and told me to finish the cabbage with it.

So I went back and started forcing it down while gagging.

Halfway through, I even went back and told her I felt too full and sick. She sent me right back to finish it. So, naturally, I threw up all over the plate, my clothes, and the table. Everything I’d eaten came right back up as a mix of digestive juices and food.

I carried the plate back to her. She looked horrified and disgusted, and clearly did not want to take it back. But she did. Then she let me go clean myself up without another word. Hopefully, she didn’t harass anyone again lol.