i need advice on spell sequencing
Hi guyss i’d really appreciate some insight on a situation I’ve been working on and what direction I should take next.
Context:
My ex and I broke up in early march after he started pulling back once things became more emotionally vulnerable. At first, he mentioned wanting a break, but later clarified he’s not ready for a relationship. We still share the same social/trading circles, so we interact in group spaces, but there hasn’t been consistent 1 on 1 communication since the breakup.
Post breakup, there have been mixed signals. The last time he reached out directly over text was toward the end of March, and the last 1 on 1 interaction was in early April when he sent me something on TikTok. Around that same time, there were also some indirect/subtle signals from him.
Outside of that, most interaction has been in shared spaces light and surface level, but not cold. His friends still interact and joke with me normally as well.
More recently, though, there’s been a stronger shift in the opposite direction he’s removed me from personal platforms, while still remaining in shared group spaces.
Work I’ve done so far (in order):
• self-work / magnetism / glamour
• relationship road opening
• sweetening work (jar)
• communication work
Results I observed:
• after road opening: subtle indirect outreach/targeted behavior
• after sweetening: warmer, softer energy
• after communication: more interaction in shared spaces (still not 1on1)
After that, tho there’s been a stronger pullback (removing me from socials).
I haven’t been chasing or overly reactive I’ve stayed neutral in interactions and haven’t pushed for emotional conversations.
My question is: at this stage, would it be more effective to focus on healing-type work (for emotional resistance), attraction work, or something else? I’m trying to avoid overworking the situation or creating more resistance, so I’d really appreciate insight on timing and sequencing !!