u/Expendable-M

So this may seem a little stupid, but I'm genuinely asking.

My grandma is homophobic and I do not want her to see me as any more feminine then I already am (skinny, don't play sports). But I really don't feel great with hair on my body. I just feel like she'll notice and get suspicious of my queerness and even if she doesn't, she could be mad cause it's feminine I guess. (I am making her out like a bad person, I swear it's just some corrupted views)

Also I have no idea what I'm doing, if I shave will it grow back wrong or thicker or something? Can I trim it or will that be weird? Also I don't care as much for anyone else's opinion, but will it be really that unexpected in public and in school?