Hey so I’ve just started seeing this guy and I thought we both were clear that it’s only a sexual relationship. Lately though he’s been texting and calling me more and our calls sometimes will last an hour plus. Honestly that’s not something I’m really used to doing for someone I’m just seeing casually. He also tells me how I’m his and how he wants to make me mine and talks about the future with me.
I kind of feel like this is odd because we would never realistically work out. For one he has a child and we just have opposite lifestyles. He asked if we can only see each other and I said yes because having one sexual partner is enough for me and it’s safer. But I’d still want to go on dates and look for someone close to my age and someone I could be in a relationship with. I’m not really sure how to bring this conversation up because even though he’s older he really doesn’t communicate well over text and idk if in person this would kill the vibe.
I also don’t know if he thinks just because I’m younger I’m dumb but I’m not. We’ve already had sex a few times and enjoyed it so he doesn’t need to do all this taking about his feelings if he just wants sex. Ig I’m just confused about everything and would like to hear other men’s thoughts.