I don't have the whole day on my phone or PC, Some hours after work and on weekends though. So playing games and filling out surveys aren't quite it. Any other ideas? I'm quite good in languages and creative things.
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I find myself questioning whether we are able to be with a person while we're still dealing with our past. I guess it depends on how you communicate.
This might be the most honest post I've ever made.
I've always had the hope somebody will come and save me but that's a trauma response. I do however think that we can find a partner with understanding and/or similar issues so we can tune in to each other and co-regulate.
It's not about trauma dumping but about loving someone to their inner core. For the child that never got what it needed.
I could tell you that I have a job, friends and hobbies and this is even true. I had long relationships and shorter ones.
It's not really the important part though.
Important is that I struggle with things that are easy for others. I cope with a lot of alone time and creativity, sometimes weed.
Relationships that made me feel seen and vulnerable, where I didn't have to keep my guard up helped extremely to be better in life.
So maybe I'm selfish but I love deeply. I care for my person and try my best. I wanna know what makes you happy.
Maybe you're already out but if you're still reading, I love music, psychology, cooking and baking and nature (should be going out more though) equally introvert and extrovert. It makes me happy when my man thinks I'm cute.
We can start with a light convo or you can just tell me what you think of my verbal diarrhea 🤭
Ps. Please give me a bit of time to sort out the DM's. I don't wanna answer too quickly and then ghost.