u/Excusemylanguageman

I’m a 32-year-old Black man living in Pennsylvania, and I’m looking for some honest advice about interracial dating—specifically dating white women.
Most of my dating experience has been within my own race, but lately I’ve become more open to dating outside of that. I’ve been putting myself out there in healthy ways—going to the gym, trying dating apps, starting conversations in places like shopping centers and the library—but I’m not much of a bar/club person since I don’t drink.
What I’ve been struggling with is figuring out whether I’m approaching the wrong places, giving off the wrong vibe, or if interracial dating is simply less common in my area. Sometimes it feels like a lot of women I’m interested in prefer to date within their own race, but I know my personal experience may not reflect reality.
For those who’ve been in interracial relationships (especially in Pennsylvania or similar areas):
What helped you meet your partner?
Are there things I should understand about interracial dating that are different from what I may be used to?
What are some pros and challenges you’ve experienced?
Any advice on how to approach dating outside my race in a genuine, respectful way?
I’m looking for real perspectives—not stereotypes—because I want to expand my dating life and connect with someone who’s a good match, regardless of race.
Appreciate any honest advice.

I am very open minded and out going. Looking for someone with good communication skills to get to know. Preferably in the states.