Is parallel play with our close friends (a couple) a bad idea…?
I know that playing with friends is a no go generally. But we feel like with this specific couple it could be perfectly fine. We aren’t necessarily attracted to them or drawn to them sexually. The only appeal we have to do it would be the high chance of it being very fun and thrilling for us to have sex while people watch us, especially people we know.
They seem to be interested in joining the lifestyle and becoming swingers as well. We love the idea of popping their swinger cherry! The only concern we have is a lack of communication with them about the possibility of the interaction.
They both say they don’t want it to be planned and want it to happen spontaneously which sounds hot for sure. But we feel it could lead to awkward situations or tense moments that could kill the vibe. My husband and I don’t get bothered by much sexually and don’t want to make things uncomfortable or awkward for them or the other way around.
If swapping partners gets mentioned, is that a bad idea as well? I know this is all over the place and i apologize. There are just many questions I have pertaining to this topic and i don’t know how to narrow them down properly!
Please be patient and respectful. We’re a young couple new to swinging!