u/ExcitingCap5596

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Late 20’s female ko and i have already consulted with my derma sa southeast, and ana siya na based sa akong skin concern pwede pud daw ko magborox sa forehead. Kinsa na nakatry magpa botox sa southeast? Okay didto? And sa mga naka try na magpa botox especially forehead, asa gwapo magpa botox here sa davao? Kanang licensed derma po unta. Unya unsa inyong experience with the clinic and the botox itself? Thank youuu!!

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u/ExcitingCap5596 — 11 days ago

I am 27f. My boyfriend(28) is a good person, smart, really takes good care of me (thoughtful), has the looks, and gives you the assurance that he won’t cheat. I love him. He was my from a not so comfortable family, he’s parents were separates and mom has a bad attitude with money like borrowing my boyfriend’s savings before and not paying before (when he was still in college). I accept that he is from this type of family, my family also knows about it. Now, my boyfriend has been working for a couple of yers already, yet he doesn’t have a savings. Primarily he doesn’t have a savings since he and his mom decided to buy a car then his mom left him to pay the debt alone. He also has this spending habit of buying new things impulsively, even though he say he is out of budget or doesn’t have savings. I am the type that thinks thoroughly, at least i wait a day if i really want to buy something and usually buy things that I need instead of want (im the type who typically waits things to be past their life like ROI it before buying new one) however he tells me that I should enjoy my money. I talk to him about the importance of saving money first before buying, that before he use his credit card, make sure he already has the extra money for that. But he just brush me off and told me that he can afford but later opens up that he just has enough money to get by. I told him about the importance of having an emergency money, but told me that he grew up not being able to afford buying things that he can afford now, for short he doesn’t prioritize having emergency money. However, he told me recently that he is trying to build his emergency money since he has already seen it’s importance. I am just getting this out of my chest. There are times I wonder what my future would be if he will be my partner. He works at a good company that he likes but it pays less than the old company he works from since it bores him. I think it is a bad decision, i think he can’t afford a low paying job that he likes, i think he should have stayed in a boring job that pays well and do a part time instead if he wants not to get bored. I think he needs to sacrifice first what kind of job he wants first since he can’t afford a lower paying job. I feel bad. Am I just being too frugal to him?

TL;DR: My boyfriend has a different view on savings and finances from me.

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u/ExcitingCap5596 — 12 days ago

I am 27f. My boyfriend(28) is a good person, smart, really takes good care of me (thoughtful), has the looks, and gives you the assurance that he won’t cheat. I love him. He was from a not so comfortable family, he’s parents were separates and mom has a bad attitude with money like borrowing my boyfriend’s savings before and not paying before (when he was still in college). I accept that he is from this type of family, my family also knows about it. Now, my boyfriend has been working for a couple of yers already, yet he doesn’t have a savings. Primarily he doesn’t have a savings since he and his mom decided to buy a car then his mom left him to pay the debt alone. He also has this spending habit of buying new things impulsively, even though he say he is out of budget or doesn’t have savings. I am the type that thinks thoroughly, at least i wait a day if i really want to buy something and usually buy things that I need instead of want (im the type who typically waits things to be past their life like ROI it before buying new one) however he tells me that I should enjoy my money. I talk to him about the importance of saving money first before buying, that before he use his credit card, make sure he already has the extra money for that. But he just brush me off and told me that he can afford but later opens up that he just has enough money to get by. I told him about the importance of having an emergency money, but told me that he grew up not being able to afford buying things that he can afford now, for short he doesn’t prioritize having emergency money. However, he told me recently that he is trying to build his emergency money since he has already seen it’s importance. I am just getting this out of my chest. There are times I wonder what my future would be if he will be my partner. He works at a good company that he likes but it pays less than the old company he works from since it bores him. I think it is a bad decision, i think he can’t afford a low paying job that he likes, i think he should have stayed in a boring job that pays well and do a part time instead if he wants not to get bored. I think he needs to sacrifice first what kind of job he wants first since he can’t afford a lower paying job. I feel bad. Am I just being too frugal to him?

TL;DR: My boyfriend has a different view on savings and finances from me.

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u/ExcitingCap5596 — 12 days ago