u/Exciting-Priority535

Hello, i have always found great support and help here, but i don’t know if this is an appropriate thing to ask here.

Did you guys have intimacy during pregnancy, and if so how safe was it? My midwife gave a green signal but my partner has this mental block and almost refuses to have any. While I really want to, but i also don’t want to risk it, and initially it does hurt a bit. But it bothers me a bit mentally, because we were very regular until we found out it was twins.

If you were active, what were the precautions you took to not harm pregnancy?

Hello, I am 21 weeks pregnant with DCDA twins. I had a doctor’s appointment today, and by the sound of it, they are ‘indirectly’ pushing towards a C-section. And informed me the latest they would wait is till 38 weeks. This is my first pregnancy also the first twins in my whole family. So I am a little clueless.

Did any one of you have a Normal Vaginal delivery? And it worries me a lot how negatively they speak. For example constantly talking about miscarriages or still borns; and all the risk that is involved health wise.

Any advice will help.