u/Excellent_Signal6288

I have had enough

I started smoking 10 years ago , prior to starting I thought it was disgusting . To the point that I even broke up with my long term partner at the time when I found out he was a smoker . How it started : I would go out with friends and they would always smoke , when they offered it to me i would always decline . One day i did not decline and I accepted but it took about 3 years for me to become a daily smoker . The road was insidious, I would go months without a cigarette and just have one here and there. I was then smoking for a few years and read Allan carrs book, and it was magic I stopped after reading the book and it was ridiculously easy . In fact it was so easy after a few months I asked my friend for one outside the cinema , I thought if its so easy to stop one cant hurt I will stop again. Noway ! I was back at it in no time. It has been a few years since I attempted to stop again . This year I have read Allen carrs book 7 times , it didn't work. I brought Allen carrs permanent way to stop smoking, it didn't work, I brought nictione addiction off amazon due to a recommendation on here and although it was helpful it didn't work. These past few months I have stopped for 7 days then at work asked a colleague if I could hit her vape , then stopped again for 3 days , the same thing happened at work , then stopped for 7 days and the same thing happened at work . What's wrong with me ? I feel like i have a demon in my make up . I stopped smoking weed last year and it was ridiculously easy and I have no cravings . I never crave alcohol because I dont drink and everytime I stop I say to myself "do you want to drink alcohol because you dont but you do want nictione because you are a drug addict". What is wrong with me ? Someone, anyone, everyone , please provide me some perspective. I cant do this anymore, im going to be 37 this year and I cant carry this on anymore. Nictione is different to weed , it doesn't get you high , its different to alcohol it doesn't get you drunk or tipsy . It does nothing for me so why do I keep going back . My advice to anyone who reads the Allen carr book if it was like magic stopping , please never have another dose of nictione because the book just doesn't seem to work the second or third time you read it, which is tragic. I should have heeded Allen carrs warning which was if its ridiculously easy to stop it will be ridiculously easy to start. My reasons for stopping are health , vanity , my throat constantly hurts . Also I stopped cigarettes a few months ago and started vaping and let me tell you , vaping is equally as bad for you as cigarettes because you vape everywhere .

Anyways tomorrow i will stop again and i hope desperately this time I can get rid of this evil demon .

Also I don't want to use nictione replacement therapy and dont want to take medication for it, based on Allen carrs logic which I firmly believe in

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u/Excellent_Signal6288 — 6 days ago

Hi, I cant choose between these two earrings . Anyone who sees this post please tell me which one of the two should I buy . For reference I have fair skin with olive undertones and dark black hair and light brown eyes . Both earrings are my style, my style is fairy , goth, witchy vibes .

Thanking you

u/Excellent_Signal6288 — 8 days ago

Hi, I hope everyone is well . I just need some support , i had a psychosis hypomanic episode last year that lasted months and I was hospitalised. Im now much better and im back at work and doing daily activities but im so over come with shame and embrassement based on the ways I publicy embarrassed myself during my epsiode . I was screaming at people calling them pedophiles , screaming at random people , going into shops etc . I still live in my home town and the option of moving is not possible. Every time im out I think people remember what I did and what I said and how I acted and im just overcome with embarrassment and shame . I would really appreciate some advice and support .

Thanking you all

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u/Excellent_Signal6288 — 14 days ago